Beyond the Rainbow: Unearthing LGBTQ+ History and Community in the Quad Cities

The Quad Cities, a vibrant region straddling the Mississippi River between Iowa and Illinois, might not be the first place that springs to mind when you think of LGBTQ+ history.

But beneath the surface of these hardworking communities lies a rich tapestry of stories, resilience, and a persistent pursuit of acceptance. It's a story that goes beyond just bars and nightlife; it's about community, connection, and the enduring human spirit.

A Legacy of Love and Laughter: Remembering Coffey & Jacoby

Imagine a time before the internet, before smartphones, when connection happened face-to-face.

In Kewanee, Illinois, a name synonymous with community, Bill Coffey, along with his partner (and later husband) Eddie Jacoby, built more than just restaurants. They built a safe haven, a place where laughter echoed, and acceptance bloomed. Coffey, remembered by many as a generous foster parent and integral part of the local Methodist church, ran two popular restaurants where Eddie stood by his side.

But it was their knack for entertainment and fostering a sense of belonging that truly set them apart.

Think back to the 80s and 90s. Coffey and Jacoby weren't just serving up delicious food; they were serving up cutting-edge entertainment, unity, and a level of professionalism that was truly groundbreaking.

As one performer recalled, "We did big production numbers. They treated us like we were family, and they treated us very good." They created a space where performers could shine, families could connect, and the LGBTQ+ community could find a sense of home.

The Power of Pageantry and Performance

These weren't just any performances; they were pageants that inspired a generation.

Performers honed their skills, learned from each other, and many went on to achieve national recognition. Danielle Hunter, for example, became a Miss Continental pageant winner, a testament to the platform Coffey and Jacoby provided.

The late Natasha Richards built a successful career on the west coast of Florida, while others, like Cavalier, Santana, Dena Cass, and Dominique Zaire, continue to be celebrated performers throughout Iowa and Illinois.

More than just a stage, it was a stepping stone.

It was a chance to shine. But perhaps even more importantly, it was a community. In a pre-internet era, Coffey and Jacoby created a physical space for connection, for shared experiences, and for the simple joy of being together. Remember a time where "you met with people, and you went out on dates."

More Than Just a Bar: Building Community Brick by Brick

Coffey's establishment wasn't just a restaurant or a performance venue; it was a cultural hub.

With a rainbow-colored awning proudly displayed, it was a beacon of inclusivity. The addition of Madison Square, a bustling restaurant next door, further solidified its place in the community. And the introduction of male strippers alongside drag queens and other entertainment attracted bachelorette parties and diverse crowds, creating a truly unique and vibrant atmosphere.

What made this place so special?

Was it the entertainment? The food? The atmosphere? It was all of these things, combined with the genuine warmth and acceptance that Coffey and Jacoby exuded. They created a space where people felt comfortable being themselves, a space where laughter and camaraderie filled the air.

A Legacy that Endures: Remembering and Celebrating

Sadly, Coffey's establishment eventually closed after a heart attack, leaving a void in the community.

But his legacy of love, laughter, and acceptance continues to inspire. Before his passing from lung cancer, tributes poured in, a testament to the profound impact he had on so many lives. As Jacoby poignantly shared, "We had a big life. We were very blessed by having so many wonderful people in our life, gay and straight."

Even though Coffey is gone, his memory lives on in the hearts of those whose lives he touched.

His story reminds us of the importance of creating safe spaces, of celebrating diversity, and of fostering a sense of belonging for all.

Exploring LGBTQ+ Spaces in the Modern Quad Cities

While Coffey & Jacoby's establishment may be a thing of the past, the spirit of community and celebration lives on in the Quad Cities.

Today, you can find several welcoming spaces where the LGBTQ+ community and allies can connect and celebrate.

Moline, IL: A Hub of Rainbow Pride

If you're in Moline, be sure to visit Mary's On 2nd, a local favorite with rave reviews. And don't miss the iconic Rainbow House, a vibrant landmark painted in horizontal and vertical rainbow stripes - a must-see for a photo op in the queer community.

The Rainbow House, beyond its visual appeal, represents the visible presence and acceptance the community continues to cultivate.

Rock Island: Arts, Culture, and Community

Venture over to Downtown Rock Island for a unique shopping and strolling experience.

Explore antique stores, boutiques, and art galleries. Be sure to check out Arts Alley, with its vibrant murals and artistic displays. Take in the scenery and riverfront setting - visit places like Waterfront Corner and other antique stores. The city offers a blend of modern and traditional spaces.

• Sip and Savor: Grab a craft cocktail or espresso at one of the local bars and coffee shops.
• Brewery Scene: Pair local beers with classic comfort food at a Moline brewpub or visit the Rock Island taproom and production facility.

Other Notable Spots

While not exclusively LGBTQ+, establishments like Phil & Larry's Saloon and Whitey's Tip Top Inn are known for their welcoming atmosphere and inclusive environment.

Liquid Dreams is another spot to keep an eye on as it develops.

Beyond the Bars: Finding Community and Connection

Remember, being LGBTQ+ is about more than just nightlife. It's about finding community, building relationships, and celebrating diversity.

The Quad Cities offers a variety of ways to connect, from social events to community organizations.

The story of the Quad Cities LGBTQ+ community is a story of resilience, creativity, and a persistent pursuit of acceptance. It's a story that deserves to be told, remembered, and celebrated.

What are your favorite spots in the Quad Cities to celebrate diversity and inclusion?